The Benefits of Continuing with Your Discernment Counselor for Couples Therapy
When couples are at a crossroads, Discernment Counseling offers a safe space to explore whether to repair the relationship or move toward separation. But what happens if you decide to give your marriage another chance? Many couples find it especially helpful to continue with the same therapist who guided their discernment process.
Here’s why:
1. A Head Start on Understanding Your Story
Because your therapist already knows your history, struggles, and goals, you don’t have to start over. This allows you to dive into meaningful couples therapy work more quickly.
2. A Safe and Trusted Relationship
You’ve already built trust during discernment counseling. That sense of safety makes it easier to be open and vulnerable as you move into Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to rebuild closeness.
3. Consistency and Continuity
Staying with the same therapist provides stability in a season of change. You’ll be supported by someone who has walked with you through uncertainty and is now equipped to help you repair and reconnect.
4. A Clear Path Forward
Discernment Counseling clarifies each partner’s level of investment. This clarity lays the groundwork for therapy, ensuring both of you step into the process with commitment and hope.
Choosing to move forward with the same therapist means you don’t have to waste energy retelling your story—you can focus fully on healing your relationship.